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Read ArticleIf you have been thinking about therapy but are not sure what kind you need, you are not alone. Counselling covers a wide range of approaches, and knowing the difference can help you make a more confident decision.
Here is a simple breakdown of 7 types of counselling.
This is one-on-one therapy between you and a therapist. It is the most common form of counselling and can address almost anything: anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, trauma, low self-esteem, or simply feeling stuck.
Individual counselling gives you a private, dedicated space to work through what is going on without having to manage anyone else’s feelings in the room.
Couples counselling supports two people in a romantic relationship who are experiencing conflict, disconnection, communication breakdown, or recovery after betrayal.
It is not only for relationships in crisis. Many couples come to therapy as a way to invest in their relationship before problems become serious, or to navigate a major life change together such as having children, career shifts, or loss.

Family therapy brings multiple family members into the room to work through relational dynamics, communication patterns, or a shared challenge affecting the whole household.
It is often used when a child or teenager is struggling, when there is conflict between family members, or when a significant event such as divorce or bereavement has impacted the family unit.
Group therapy involves a small number of people, usually with a shared experience, meeting together with a trained therapist. This might include grief groups, trauma recovery groups, or support groups for anxiety or depression.
There is something particularly powerful about being in a room with people who genuinely understand your experience. Group therapy reduces isolation and can offer perspective that individual sessions sometimes cannot.
Trauma counselling is specifically focused on helping people process and recover from distressing or overwhelming experiences. This includes childhood trauma, abuse, accidents, loss, or relationship trauma such as infidelity or emotional abuse.
Approaches like EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) and trauma-focused therapy are designed to help the nervous system process what happened, so it no longer controls how you feel in the present.

Grief counselling supports people through loss. That might be the death of someone they love, but grief also shows up after divorce, job loss, health diagnoses, or any significant ending.
A grief counsellor helps you move through the experience at your own pace, without pressure to feel better faster than you actually do.
This type of counselling focuses on identity, purpose, direction, and decision-making. It is useful for people navigating major transitions, questioning their path, or feeling unclear about what they want from their work or personal life.
It sits between traditional therapy and coaching, drawing on both depending on what the person needs.
The honest answer is that you do not always have to know before you start. A good therapist will help you figure out what kind of support fits your situation, and many will draw on more than one approach depending on what comes up.
What matters most is taking the first step.
If you are in London, Ontario or anywhere in Ontario virtually, Esther Mensah Counselling & Psychotherapy offers individual therapy, couples counselling, and trauma therapy in a warm and culturally sensitive space.
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EMDR therapy is a structured therapeutic approach that can help people process distressing memories and traumatic experiences. This blog explains what EMDR is, how the therapy works, who may benefit from it, and what to expect during sessions. It also explores how EMDR may support people experiencing trauma, PTSD symptoms, anxiety, and emotional distress.
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